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Top : Parents Corner : Moments For Mom : Vol. 2002 Issue 02 ~ February

Vol. 2002 Issue 02 ~ February

~ Elisabeth Corcoran

If I were to ask you to picture your closest friend, does one particular person come to mind? Is it a female??? I would like to share a lesson with you that I am currently working onÖour husbands are our friends. Some of you may be thinking, ĎDuh? Of course he isÖthatís why I married him.í But is he really? And if he isnít, why not? Are you possibly the hindrance in the friendship? I read somewhere that you are your husbandís best friend. Even if you canít picture that, look around his life Ė more than likely he is sharing more with you and depending more on you than he is anyone else. For him, youíre it! What are you doing on your end to be his friend?

A girlfriend was sharing with me how she noticed that when she talks on the phone with her husband, she was matter-of-fact and curt, even showing disappointment with him. But that when she talked with her girlfriends on the phone, she was lighthearted and kind. I asked my husband a while back what I could do in our marriage for him to be happy. His answer (that cut through my heart and pride), Ďbe nice to meí. Ouch. Why is it that we forget so quickly that the guy we married Ė you know, the one we eat with, sleep with, spend with, worship with, have kids with Ė is actually our friend?

So here is something I am currently working on --- I have resolved to myself just recently that I will share with Kevin first. Iím not just referring to stuff about Kevin or our marriage, but church stuff, friend stuff, things Iím struggling with. If I havenít shared it with Kevin, I wonít share it with anyone else.

As far as specific marital problems go Ė please donít share these with all of your friends. Either seek out counseling if itís serious enough or if you just feel stuck, or find a woman you can trust who can mentor you in your marriage. Donít allow yourself to get together with your girlfriends and husband-bash. It really does no one any good.

So bottom line - ladies, we need to go to our husbands first. Your husband needs to be the most important person in your life. And I donít say this lightly - no matter the state of your marriage relationship. We are called to be wives before and long after our calling to motheringÖso please commit with me to make this a priority in your heart and with your time.

© Elisabeth K. Corcoran, 2002

Elisabeth K. Corcoran is the author of Calm in My Chaos: Encouragement for a Mom's Weary Soul . This column is original and not excerpted from her book.

Submitted on : 01-Feb-2002

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight." Proverbs 3:5-6

Top : Parents Corner : Moments For Mom : Vol. 2002 Issue 02 ~ February

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